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Attachment Styles: Turns Out I'm Not An Emotionless Automaton

August 10 | by Kat Stark

Monogamous people usually only need to worry about figuring out one of these but we ethically non-monogamous folks tend get multiple styles in multiple relationships. Whee! So lucky!

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My Nipples Hate You

July 27 | by Kat Stark

And if you do it right one time, in one moment, you're immediately going to forget and go back to how you touch everyone else's nipples, and it's going to feel really BAD and they're going to hate you again.

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13 | by Kat Stark

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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Our First Swinger Date

June 29 | by Kat Stark

Eventually the game got a sexier and we all started having to do little dares that got more and more intimate - a lap dance here, some inner thigh kissing there.

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Sex with Sex Geeks May Have Ruined Me for Sex with Muggles

June 1 | by Kat Stark

All the talking might not be everyone's bag but for me, I feel the excitement of getting cheat codes that will help me take my partner to the upper pleasure levels.

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A Slut By Any Other Name

May 18 | by Kat Stark

Would people still take us seriously? What if we're trying to run in serious polyamory circles that frown on casual sex? As much as I want to fully embrace my sexy slut self, I still have some serious discomfort around the word.

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Disconnected: When Your Partner Travels With Another

May 3 | by Kat Stark

As I watched Flick pack the afternoon before he left, I started to feel the pangs as it really hit me that he was going on this adventure without me. It felt really weird that he was going to be having big new experiences on this trip with someone else.

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Squirting 101

April 20 | by Kat Stark

It is likely just a case of stimulating the right tissues the right way, but all our anatomy varies slightly, so it may not happen for every person with a vagina. It doesn't mean your vag (or your partner's) is flawed because it doesn't squirt. Your vag is amazing!

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