Non-Monogamy Taught Me to Love My Big Booty

January 13 | by Kat Stark

But Kat, you say, you're a tart and an exhibitionist. You've been to Desire Resort and Spa. You hung out naked there most of the time!

Trust me. It wasn't an easy obstacle to overcome.

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Everything Must Change

December 20, 2016 | by Kat Stark

Sometimes a relationship doesn't work the way you think it will. Sometimes you go into something expecting it to look and feel a certain way, travel a certain path, and as you go, it turns out that is not what you (or the other person(s)) wanted after all.

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I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women

December 9, 2016 | with Kat Stark

Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.

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Eleven Things I Learned at Swingset Takes Over Desire 2016

November 25, 2016 | with Kat Stark

I had no idea how much zing I'd get from the 'Yes, Ma'am' he gave me as I walked out of the room to use the washroom, instructing him that I expected him to be on his back and ready for me when I returned, despite his shaky limbs.

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November 11, 2016 | by Kat Stark

We began the night with social time, drinks and food as people arrived and got the chance to meet people they didn't know. We lined up all the toys on the mantle and enjoyed the colourful plethora of options on display.

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Strap-On 101

October 25, 2016 | with Kat Stark

And although I'm mostly just an enthusiastic amateur, I've had a fair amount of experience using them and thought I'd walk through some of the basics for people who are looking to get strapped for the first time or those who've used them a bit but never quite been satisfied by their experiences.

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I'm Socially Awkward and Dating is a Hellscape

October 14, 2016 | with Kat Stark

Intimacy is incredibly difficult for me. Talking and socializing and revealing myself personally is much more intimate and vulnerable than sex is for me. I definitely need to feel like I have a social rapport before I have sex, but basically once I've established the other person I'm attracted to isn't a psycho, or a Republican, I'm good to go.

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Confessions of a Wannabe Anal Queen

October 4, 2016 | with Kat Stark

I would expect the freaking-out nerves to desensitize to stimulation with repetition but each experience they react like they've never been touched before, my leg goes numb, I panic and can't imagine how it could ever feel good, unless I wait and breathe through a two-hour process and we eventually get to it feeling great.

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