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Attachment Styles: Turns Out I'm Not An Emotionless Automaton

August 10 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Monogamous people usually only need to worry about figuring out one of these but we ethically non-monogamous folks tend get multiple styles in multiple relationships. Whee! So lucky!

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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Podcast Episode 12: Impermanence, Breakups, and Relationship Transitions

July 1 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids watching Disney movies. Relationships end or sometimes transition into subtly or entirely different forms.

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Our First Swinger Date

June 29 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Eventually the game got a sexier and we all started having to do little dares that got more and more intimate - a lap dance here, some inner thigh kissing there.

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Podcast Episode 11: Sexy Vacations w Cooper Beckett

May 25 | with Kat Stark & "Serious" Flick Morrison | Podcasts

Going to different cities and countries is always amazing, but going to different places and having sex with people: that takes the amazing factor up to a whole new level.

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A Slut By Any Other Name

May 18 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Would people still take us seriously? What if we're trying to run in serious polyamory circles that frown on casual sex? As much as I want to fully embrace my sexy slut self, I still have some serious discomfort around the word.

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Disconnected: When Your Partner Travels With Another

May 3 | by Kat Stark | Blog

As I watched Flick pack the afternoon before he left, I started to feel the pangs as it really hit me that he was going on this adventure without me. It felt really weird that he was going to be having big new experiences on this trip with someone else.

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Podcast Episode 10: Female Relationships Part Two

April 21 | with Kat Stark | Podcasts

Kat & guest Dawn Ardent examine our experiences of public bisexuality through exhibitionism, supporting those more marginalized than us in the new political climate, and the pros and cons of doing the emotional labour in our complex array of relationships.

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