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Podcast Episode 14: Pulling Back

September 8 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times when we're out there dating a ton and boning all the sexy people, when we have the time and energy to enjoy the sexy connections we have made and will make. Yet there are other times when we need to pull back for a myriad of reasons, when time or energy are at a premium, and we need to do less.

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Awkward Your Way Into My Pants

August 25 | by Kat Stark | Blog

The second I feel someone giving me some kind of slick player vibe, my interest shuts down and my thighs clamp shut.

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Attachment Styles: Turns Out I'm Not An Emotionless Automaton

August 10 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Monogamous people usually only need to worry about figuring out one of these but we ethically non-monogamous folks tend get multiple styles in multiple relationships. Whee! So lucky!

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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Sex with Sex Geeks May Have Ruined Me for Sex with Muggles

June 1 | by Kat Stark | Blog

All the talking might not be everyone's bag but for me, I feel the excitement of getting cheat codes that will help me take my partner to the upper pleasure levels.

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Podcast Episode 11: Sexy Vacations w Cooper Beckett

May 25 | with Kat Stark & "Serious" Flick Morrison | Podcasts

Going to different cities and countries is always amazing, but going to different places and having sex with people: that takes the amazing factor up to a whole new level.

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A Slut By Any Other Name

May 18 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Would people still take us seriously? What if we're trying to run in serious polyamory circles that frown on casual sex? As much as I want to fully embrace my sexy slut self, I still have some serious discomfort around the word.

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Disconnected: When Your Partner Travels With Another

May 3 | by Kat Stark | Blog

As I watched Flick pack the afternoon before he left, I started to feel the pangs as it really hit me that he was going on this adventure without me. It felt really weird that he was going to be having big new experiences on this trip with someone else.

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