Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...
And if you do it right one time, in one moment, you're immediately going to forget and go back to how you touch everyone else's nipples, and it's going to feel really BAD and they're going to hate you again.
My doubts and fears--Had I not been clear enough? What had I done wrong to get myself in that situation?--left me frozen and I lay on my stomach on the bed absolutely rigid until he eventually noticed something was wrong and stopped.Continue reading →
Welcome to On The Wet Coast,
a blog & podcast about sexuality and
ethical non-monogamy of every variety.
We talk polyamory and swinging,
monogamish and open relationships;
From dirty, dirty sex to heartbreak.
We share our personal experiences and philosophy,
observations and theories,
what works for us...and where we fucked it right up.