Amazon:
eBook |
Paperback |
AudiobookTwenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...
It was strange after having several years of super-sexy discovery and exploration to slip into a mode where the sexual piece of me that I’d considered so foundational to my identity was nearly entirely shut off.
Continue reading →
Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid.
Continue reading →
Whether it's biology and pheromones, cultural influence, or personality, there are myriad factors at play in who we find attractive.
Continue reading →
I am eminently reasonable. In theory, it’s a great quality to have. I’m able to see and understand all the different sides of arguments and generally try really hard to make sure everyone is happy.
Continue reading →
At the same time, I feel an immediate sense of loss because I know that they're not going to be as available to me. Then I feel guilty for being selfish and clingy.
Continue reading →
What’s the appeal and the fascination? In our lifetime, it’s gone from being a secret perversion to borderline mainstream.
Continue reading →
You may find yourself liking and/or loving those things too, metamours turn into paramours, and you may settle into some polyam smugness about how great you are all are at this non-monogamy thing.
Continue reading →
You've all gotten together after much planning and discussions of fantasies you all want fulfilled but when you get to the moment, people aren't always up for it and it's important to know that it's okay to opt-out.
Continue reading →
