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Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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My Swingset Takes Desire 2017 Moments

December 26, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Swingset Takes Over Desire is truly is an incredible experience and I hope someday to return and overwrite the difficult memories with a whole lot more sexy fun.

TAGS: BDSM, Desire Resort, Flick, Mal, Ophilia, Peach, Will, anxiety, bisexual, bottom, exhibitionist, feels, fuckation, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, polyamory, queer, relationships, sex, spontaneous orgasms, strap-on, stress, swinging, sybian, travel
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Podcast Episode 11: Sexy Vacations w Cooper Beckett

May 25, 2017 | with Kat Stark & "Serious" Flick Morrison | Podcasts

Going to different cities and countries is always amazing, but going to different places and having sex with people: that takes the amazing factor up to a whole new level.

TAGS: Cooper, Desire Resort, Flick, Iris, Kasidie, Life on the Swingset, bisexual, boundaries, communication, compersion, dating, empathy, expectations, feels, fuckation, growing pains, insecurity, jealousy, learning curve, lifestyle, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, rejection, sex, sexism, sexy vacations, stress, swinging, travel, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 10: Female Relationships Part Two

April 21, 2017 | with Kat Stark | Podcasts

Kat & guest Dawn Ardent examine our experiences of public bisexuality through exhibitionism, supporting those more marginalized than us in the new political climate, and the pros and cons of doing the emotional labour in our complex array of relationships.

TAGS: Dawn Ardent, Elle, Flick, Iris, Will, bisexual, communication, exhibitionism, fuckation, jealousy, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, podcast, polyamory, queer, stress, travel
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Podcast Episode 9: Female Relationships Part One

April 6, 2017 | with Kat Stark | Podcasts

Women have been taught to compete & struggle against even our closest female friends so how can we connect when there are people we love openly together? And how does it work when we're into each other too?

TAGS: Dawn Ardent, Desire Resort, Elle, Iris, Will, anxiety, bisexual, boundaries, communication, compersion, flirting, fuckation, jealousy, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, podcast, polyamory, queer, sex, sexuality, stress, swinging, travel
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Stepping Out of my Comfort Zone

March 22, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I decided to take the initiative and privately messaged the woman I'd been crushing on to tell her that I thought she was sexy and would love to play if she was interested. She was--Squee!

TAGS: Elle, Will, anxiety, bisexual, electrostim, flirting, fuckation, group sex, insecurity, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, polyamory, queer, sex, sex toys, sexting, squirting, strap-on, swinging, travel, vulnerability
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Non-Monogamy Taught Me to Love My Big Booty

January 13, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

But Kat, you say, you're a tart and an exhibitionist. You've been to Desire Resort and Spa. You hung out naked there most of the time!

Trust me. It wasn't an easy obstacle to overcome.

TAGS: Desire Resort, Life on the Swingset, anxiety, body image, exhibitionism, fuckation, insecurity, non-monogamy, open relationship, polyamory, travel, vulnerability
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I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women

December 9, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.

TAGS: Desire Resort, Life on the Swingset, Ophilia, Peach, Raina, Will, anxiety, bisexual, dildo, double ender, female ejaculation, feminism, fuckation, group sex, insecurity, lady pile, ladybang, magic wand, nJoy eleven, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, play party, poly, polyamory, queer, slut shame, squirting, swinging, travel, voyeur, vulnerability
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I Went to a Sexy Dinner and Play Party and Learned I Fuck Like a Rock Star

September 2, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Emboldened by my uncharacteristic bravery, I kept channelling it and once we'd moved into the play space, I asked a fully-dressed guy I didn't know very well if he thought he was wearing too many clothes and if he wanted me to help remedy that. He did want that. Shortly after, when the first few people got completely naked, I did the same.

TAGS: Flick, Olivia, Raina, San Francisco, Wes, bisexual, exhibitionism, female ejaculation, fuckation, group sex, lady pile, non-monogamy, our gourmet life, play party, poly, polyamory, queer, sex, squirting, strap-on, swinging, travel, voyeur
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