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Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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The Fawning Abyss

January 17, 2020 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Instead of fighting, fleeing, or freezing, those who fawn will placate the source of their distress with being agreeable and helpful, relinquishing assertiveness and boundaries in exchange for a sense of safety.

TAGS: angst, anxiety, attachment, avoidant, boundaries, communication, dating, expectations, feels, growing pains, impermanence, insecurity, mental illness, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, polyamory, relationships, stress, vulnerability
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Reset Button

August 27, 2019 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I kept feeling like if only I could hit on the right combination of hair colour and attitude then Poof! I'd magically feel like early-2015-model Kat

TAGS: angst, anxiety, bisexual, breakups, dating, feels, impermanence, insecurity, learning curve, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, poly, polyamory, queer, rejection, relationships, sex, stress, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 34: Chosen Family

June 22, 2019 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like coming home.

TAGS: Desire Resort, FWB, Life on the Swingset, angst, anxiety, boundaries, dating, feels, impermanence, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, relationships, stress, swinging, travel, vulnerability
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A Cleansing

March 17, 2019 | by Kat Stark | Blog

It is always near the water that I do my best thinking. It's like it blows away all the superficial thoughts and worries and as I contemplate the vast and awesome nature of the ocean as it shifts and breaks, I'm able to see truths that are invisible to me at other times.

TAGS: angst, anxiety, bisexual, breakups, feels, impermanence, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, polyamory, queer, relationships, stress, travel, vulnerability
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Feeling All The Things All At The Same Time

November 30, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I feel really glad that a partner gets to have a thing that fuels and fulfills them while simultaneously feeling left out that they're choosing to do those things with someone else.

TAGS: Flick, angst, anxiety, boundaries, breakups, communication, compersion, dating, expectations, feels, growing pains, impermanence, insecurity, intimacy, jealousy, learning curve, love, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, poly, polyamory, queer, relationships, stress, travel, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 27: Jealousy Revisited

November 19, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Jealousy is almost always the reason people cite when they state that they couldn't ever be non-monogamous yet plenty of non-monogamous and polyamorous people experience jealousy regularly.

TAGS: Hot Mama, anxiety, boundaries, communication, dating, empathy, feels, flirting, growing pains, impermanence, insecurity, intimacy, jealousy, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, relationships, sexuality, stress, submission, swinging, vulnerability
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When Life Gets Small

October 8, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

The more we learn about their lives and their partners and connections, the bigger our lives begin to feel. We feel part of a larger whole and it can fill us with a sense of comfort and belonging.

TAGS: breakups, communication, dating, feels, growing pains, impermanence, learning curve, love, needs, non-monogamy, open relationship, poly, polyamory, relationships, stress, vulnerability
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What I Want

September 15, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I want you to want to know me. To dive deep into my brain, into my life. I want you to want to know the essence of me (though never through extended eye contact).

TAGS: angst, breakups, communication, expectations, feels, impermanence, intimacy, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, poly, polyamory, queer, rejection, relationships, vulnerability
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