Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...


The More The Merrier (Until It's Not)

December 1 | by Kat Stark | Blog

You may find yourself liking and/or loving those things too, metamours turn into paramours, and you may settle into some polyam smugness about how great you are all are at this non-monogamy thing.

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13, 2017 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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The Cost of the Closet

February 19, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I hadn't thought about what it might be like for someone watching the snapshots of my life shift so dramatically, showing my life was anything but "the usual" I was describing.

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I Only Need What You Can Give

October 16, 2015 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I've been spending too much of my time riddled with self-doubt and angst--and sometimes bouts of ugly-cry tears--based on the communication whims of my partners.

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