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Podcast Episode 14: Pulling Back

September 8 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times when we're out there dating a ton and boning all the sexy people, when we have the time and energy to enjoy the sexy connections we have made and will make. Yet there are other times when we need to pull back for a myriad of reasons, when time or energy are at a premium, and we need to do less.

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Awkward Your Way Into My Pants

August 25 | by Kat Stark | Blog

The second I feel someone giving me some kind of slick player vibe, my interest shuts down and my thighs clamp shut.

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Attachment Styles: Turns Out I'm Not An Emotionless Automaton

August 10 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Monogamous people usually only need to worry about figuring out one of these but we ethically non-monogamous folks tend get multiple styles in multiple relationships. Whee! So lucky!

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Podcast Episode 13: Fitting In

August 3 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

People whose identities don't conform to the norms within a community often feel isolated from that community. Figuring out how to fit in when you don't hew to the line of a group is an incredible challenge.

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My Nipples Hate You

July 27 | by Kat Stark | Blog

And if you do it right one time, in one moment, you're immediately going to forget and go back to how you touch everyone else's nipples, and it's going to feel really BAD and they're going to hate you again.

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When Love Gets in the Way

July 13 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have been guilty of hanging onto things for far too long that weren't good for me or the other person because I loved them. We weren't in the same place mentally and emotionally.

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Podcast Episode 12: Impermanence, Breakups, and Relationship Transitions

July 1 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids watching Disney movies. Relationships end or sometimes transition into subtly or entirely different forms.

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Our First Swinger Date

June 29 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Eventually the game got a sexier and we all started having to do little dares that got more and more intimate - a lap dance here, some inner thigh kissing there.

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