Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...
Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we’d like to have done to us and/or what we’d like to do to others.
I'm presenting myself as an object in those moments for my partners (or instagram followers) because it feels good to me. I'm opting-in to objectification in that situation.
Welcome to On The Wet Coast,
a blog & podcast about sexuality and
ethical non-monogamy of every variety.
We talk polyamory and swinging,
monogamish and open relationships;
From dirty, dirty sex to heartbreak.
We share our personal experiences and philosophy,
observations and theories,
what works for us...and where we fucked it right up.