I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women
Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.
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Eleven Things I Learned at Swingset Takes Over Desire 2016
I had no idea how much zing I'd get from the 'Yes, Ma'am' he gave me as I walked out of the room to use the washroom, instructing him that I expected him to be on his back and ready for me when I returned, despite his shaky limbs.
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Shenanniversary
We began the night with social time, drinks and food as people arrived and got the chance to meet people they didn't know. We lined up all the toys on the mantle and enjoyed the colourful plethora of options on display.
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Podcast Episode 5: Autonomy
Even if it doesn't seem like it, we choose how much we let other people's needs and wants influence our decision making and how much autonomy we claim for ourselves. Romantic & sexual relationships challenge autonomy regularly and in non-monogamy that challenge can be ever-present.
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Strap-On 101
And although I'm mostly just an enthusiastic amateur, I've had a fair amount of experience using them and thought I'd walk through some of the basics for people who are looking to get strapped for the first time or those who've used them a bit but never quite been satisfied by their experiences.
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I'm Socially Awkward and Dating is a Hellscape
Intimacy is incredibly difficult for me. Talking and socializing and revealing myself personally is much more intimate and vulnerable than sex is for me. I definitely need to feel like I have a social rapport before I have sex, but basically once I've established the other person I'm attracted to isn't a psycho, or a Republican, I'm good to go.
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Confessions of a Wannabe Anal Queen
I would expect the freaking-out nerves to desensitize to stimulation with repetition but each experience they react like they've never been touched before, my leg goes numb, I panic and can't imagine how it could ever feel good, unless I wait and breathe through a two-hour process and we eventually get to it feeling great.
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Podcast Episode 4: Triads
Flick & I are podcasting from our first triad getaway (sorry about the unavoidable background noise) with our awesome girlfriend Iris and she's joining us to talk about this unique & challenging non-monogamous relationship style.
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