Sex Toy Reviews, Open Relationships & Polyamory

Nalone Jane Double Ended Waterproof Wand Vibrator

December 27, 2021 | with Kat Stark | Reviews

The price point is good for a rechargeable double ended waterproof vibrator and it would fit easily in your travel bag

TAGS: dildo, double ender, g-spot, masturbation, sex, sex toys, sexuality, toy review, travel, vibrator

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Podcast Episode 40: Novelty, Being in the Moment, and Gangbangs

February 29, 2020 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

The FOMO - Fear Of Missing Out - can make it that we're not able to be present in the moment and we don't ever truly enjoy the experience we're currently having.

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Podcast Episode 34: Chosen Family

June 22, 2019 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like coming home.

TAGS: Desire Resort, FWB, Life on the Swingset, angst, anxiety, boundaries, dating, feels, impermanence, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, relationships, stress, swinging, travel, vulnerability

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No More Wet Spot Waterproof Blanket

June 9, 2019 | by Kat Stark | Reviews

You don't need to be a squirter to appreciate a good waterproof blanket for sexytimes, since there are often puddles of lube or other fluids that it's lovely to contain and have a clean surface to sleep on after.

TAGS: Liberator Throe, female ejaculation, masturbation, sex, sex toys, squirting, travel

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A Cleansing

March 17, 2019 | by Kat Stark | Blog

It is always near the water that I do my best thinking. It's like it blows away all the superficial thoughts and worries and as I contemplate the vast and awesome nature of the ocean as it shifts and breaks, I'm able to see truths that are invisible to me at other times.

TAGS: angst, anxiety, bisexual, breakups, feels, impermanence, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, polyamory, queer, relationships, stress, travel, vulnerability

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Podcast Episode 28: Have You Met Flick?

December 17, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

On this episode of On The Wet Coast, you get a chance to peek behind the curtain and learn more about self-described Super Villain, Gamer, geek, and resident know-it-all Flick Morrison.

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Feeling All The Things All At The Same Time

November 30, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I feel really glad that a partner gets to have a thing that fuels and fulfills them while simultaneously feeling left out that they're choosing to do those things with someone else.

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It's not a competition.

February 9, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

At the same time, I feel an immediate sense of loss because I know that they're not going to be as available to me. Then I feel guilty for being selfish and clingy.