Podcast on Swinging, Open Relationships & Polyamory

Podcast Episode 22: Flirting, Sexting, and Dirty Talk

June 10, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid.

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I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women

December 9, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.

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Eleven Things I Learned at Swingset Takes Over Desire 2016

November 25, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

I had no idea how much zing I'd get from the 'Yes, Ma'am' he gave me as I walked out of the room to use the washroom, instructing him that I expected him to be on his back and ready for me when I returned, despite his shaky limbs.

TAGS: BDSM, Cooper, Desire Resort, Flick, JV, Life on the Swingset, Mal, Ophilia, Peach, Raina, Wes, Will, angst, anxiety, bisexual, bottom, exhibitionist, feels, female ejaculation, flogging, group sex, insecurity, jealousy, learning curve, pansexual, pegging, poly, queer, rimming, sexy vacations, spontaneous orgasms, squirting, strap-on, stress, swinging, switch, sybian, top, travel, voyeur, vulnerability

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I Went to a Sexy Dinner and Play Party and Learned I Fuck Like a Rock Star

September 2, 2016 | with Kat Stark | Blog

Emboldened by my uncharacteristic bravery, I kept channelling it and once we'd moved into the play space, I asked a fully-dressed guy I didn't know very well if he thought he was wearing too many clothes and if he wanted me to help remedy that. He did want that. Shortly after, when the first few people got completely naked, I did the same.

TAGS: Flick, Olivia, Raina, San Francisco, Wes, bisexual, exhibitionism, female ejaculation, fuckation, group sex, lady pile, non-monogamy, our gourmet life, play party, poly, polyamory, queer, sex, squirting, strap-on, swinging, travel, voyeur

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She Bangs

June 26, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Iris and I asked around to various women we know to see who might be interested in such shenanigans and were able to gather a group of five adventurous souls who were down to fuck me senseless.

TAGS: Bex, Dot, Flick, Hot Mama, Iris, Raina, Wes, bisexual, eroscillator, fuckchair, gangbang, ladybang, magic wand, non-monogamy, open relationship, orgy, pansexual, poly, polyamory, queer, scissoring, squirting, strap-on, swinging

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Reconnecting with Sexy Friends

March 25, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I have no issues being a pervert, but I have worries about being denied entry into the US (possibly forever) for being a pervert. "We don't need your maple-scented filth here, ma'am!"

TAGS: Desire Resort, Flick, Hot Mama, Life on the Swingset, Raina, Wes, anxiety, fuckation, non-monogamy, open relationship, poly, polyamory, stress, swinging, travel

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Guys are like Ah and Gals are like Oo

March 4, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I find I'm kind of intimidated by them, and my brain goes into this "Pretty! *giggle* Can't. Talk." shutdown mode, and I haven't figured out how to break through.

TAGS: Cooper, Elle, Iris, Kasidie, Raina, bisexual, feels, flirting, learning curve, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, pansexual, poly, polyamory, queer, sexting, squirting, threesome, unicorn

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Swinging in Paradise Part 3

January 22, 2016 | by Kat Stark | Blog

Some tropical rain shut down the band early, but Will and I took advantage and made out in the rain, enjoying rain-slick skin and lips as others dodged for cover.