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Kat Stark - Yelling in Pasties

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Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...

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Unicorn Horn and Lust Burster by Lust Arts

July 10, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Reviews

I love these toys! They're beautiful and I want to touch them, and they feel even better in my body. AND they're geeky cool.

TAGS: Lust Arts, anal, horn, masturbation, sex toys, toy review, unicorn, xenomorph
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Reclaiming My Inner Slut

July 7, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

It was strange after having several years of super-sexy discovery and exploration to slip into a mode where the sexual piece of me that I’d considered so foundational to my identity was nearly entirely shut off.

TAGS: Flick, Iris, Liberator Throe, angst, anxiety, beauty, bisexual, communication, dating, exhibitionism, exhibitionist, expectations, feels, impermanence, intimacy, ladybang, learning curve, mental illness, needs, non-monogamy, online dating, open relationship, poly, polyamory, queer, relationships, sex, sexism, sexuality, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 23: Dating During Upheaval

July 6, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

In non-monogamy, we often have concurrent partners and heartbreak and it can be really tough to figure out how to grieve a relationship while maintaining or building another.

TAGS: Flick, angst, anxiety, avoidant, bisexual, breakups, communication, dating, empathy, feels, impermanence, insecurity, non-monogamy, open relationship, podcast, poly, polyamory, queer, relationships, sex, sexuality, stress, swinging, vulnerability
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Podcast Episode 22: Flirting, Sexting, and Dirty Talk

June 10, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid.

TAGS: Cooper, Raina, Wes, anxiety, bisexual, communication, consent, dating, expectations, flirting, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, pansexual, podcast, polyamory, queer, relationships, risk aware sex, sex, sexting
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Podcast Episode 21: SCIENCE!

April 17, 2018 | with "Serious" Flick Morrison & Kat Stark | Podcasts

Author and researcher of sociology and anthropology Brenda Wiebe has written Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack my Love Life, a review of different relationship patterns throughout human history in combination with her own intimate journal entries.

TAGS: Life on the Swingset, attachment, autonomy, breakups, communication, dating, feels, growing pains, impermanence, learning curve, non-monogamy, open relationship, origin story, podcast, poly, polyamory, relationships, sex, vulnerability
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Kicking Down The Closet Door

March 30, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

I came across this piece of writing, from my LiveJournal in October 2014, nearly a year before Flick and I began discussing becoming non-monogamous. Little did Baby Kat know what was in store for her.

TAGS: anxiety, bisexual, learning curve
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The Art of Receiving a Sexy Photo

March 18, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Blog

You want your sexy self and your outfit or clever composition to be enthusiastically received and commented upon.

TAGS: communication, dating, feels, non-monogamy, relationships, sex toys
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Le Wand

March 11, 2018 | by Kat Stark | Reviews

My experience with Le Wand was less than stellar ultimately but it is definitely a case of 'not for me' versus 'not a good product'.

TAGS: Die Cast, magic wand, masturbation, sex, sex toys, toy review, vibrator
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