Podcast Episode 6: Disclosure
All relationships require communication, but good communication is even more essential in ethically non-monogamous relationships where multiple people's needs and wants intersect.
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Stop Being So Damned Nice!
My doubts and fears--Had I not been clear enough? What had I done wrong to get myself in that situation?--left me frozen and I lay on my stomach on the bed absolutely rigid until he eventually noticed something was wrong and stopped.
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Non-Monogamy Taught Me to Love My Big Booty
But Kat, you say, you're a tart and an exhibitionist. You've been to Desire Resort and Spa. You hung out naked there most of the time!
Trust me. It wasn't an easy obstacle to overcome.
Everything Must Change
Sometimes a relationship doesn't work the way you think it will. Sometimes you go into something expecting it to look and feel a certain way, travel a certain path, and as you go, it turns out that is not what you (or the other person(s)) wanted after all.
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I'm More Attracted to Men but I Have More Sex With Women
Oh, the lady pile. It's a place I've found myself more often than I'd have expected to do so, considering that I find myself more into cock than pussy.
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Shenanniversary
We began the night with social time, drinks and food as people arrived and got the chance to meet people they didn't know. We lined up all the toys on the mantle and enjoyed the colourful plethora of options on display.
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Podcast Episode 5: Autonomy
Even if it doesn't seem like it, we choose how much we let other people's needs and wants influence our decision making and how much autonomy we claim for ourselves. Romantic & sexual relationships challenge autonomy regularly and in non-monogamy that challenge can be ever-present.
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Strap-On 101
And although I'm mostly just an enthusiastic amateur, I've had a fair amount of experience using them and thought I'd walk through some of the basics for people who are looking to get strapped for the first time or those who've used them a bit but never quite been satisfied by their experiences.
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