Midweek Meltdowns
First published on Life On the Swingset - http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/22894/swinging-in-paradise-desire-recap-part-2/
Wednesday was a tough day. I'd been pretty shaken by the previous night, but did my best to bounce back. I was also really sick by this point and had barely slept the entire trip (I get terrible insomnia when I travel). I had some sort of digestive bug before I'd even left home, and being in Mexico did NOT help matters. I was very excited about the events of the day -- pegging demo and flogging demo -- so I took a bunch of medicine and rallied to keep going.
After the pegging demo I stuck around to snuggle Cooper with Ophilia and Raina. Flick was off to the flogging demo and I was really torn--stick around to support and pleasure my friend or go watch something I really wanted to learn more about with Flick. I knew I'd feel guilty either choice, but I was snuggled and happy so chose to stay, and had a great time when snuggle time turned into three of us giving him a triple handjob. Although I did my best to fight it, my brain was constantly pinging that I was doing something wrong, and also that they might have wanted someone other than me to be there.
As we wrapped up, I headed into the flogging demo and chatted about my distress with Flick, who off-handedly mentioned I hadn't gotten to enjoy either thing. That hit me really hard and as I began to get emotional, all my insecurities of the week swept in coupled with frustration with the anxiety that ruins many experiences for me, and I had to race back to the room before the tears hit.
Flick came back to our room after the demo and found me crying my face off, we cuddled and chatted. He was having a lot of jealousy issues of his own, both about my connection with Will, and feeling insecure about how strong his feelings were for Peach, and his shyness getting in the way of putting himself forward with her.
We had dinner that night with a sexy, young couple we'd been spending a lot of casual time with but hadn't had much of a chance to chat with in a more intimate setting. It was nice to focus on only two people, after having spent entirely too much of our day in our heads and emotional selves. We danced and socialized after dinner then headed to the hot tub.
That night Wes and I decided to split off from the crowd for some one on one time. We chatted for a couple hours lying on one of the beds nearby, both surprised with how quickly one could form an intense bond in the setting at Desire, and then segued into some extremely hot fucking. When I returned to the tub, wobble legged, I couldn't see Flick. I looked around at all the various thrusting asses on nearby beds, but none of them belonged to him.
A little panicked I headed back to our room, worried that my disappearing for so long with Wes was an issue for my sweetie. Turns out, he wasn't upset about my shenanigans but was feeling really lousy about his own lack of confidence. He'd been spending time chatting with Peach and a way more confident guy literally put himself bodily between Flick and Peach, and grabbed her attention away. This part of Flick always surprises me, since he's so much more naturally social than me, I forget how shy he really is. We talked for ages, dazed and frustrated by what an emotional day it had been.
Thursday morning we met up with Mal and Peach and decided to get together for a foursome in the late morning. I love daytime sex! They're such a sexy couple and we had an amazing time, though we had to cut things a little short to grab lunch before the Swingset and Gentle Perverts Social Club live podcast recordings. There's a great moment in the live Swingset podcast when I shut down Dylan's brain by taking off my top. For an attention whore, you wouldn't have thought I'd blush bright red and try to slide under my seat when all eyes turned my way, but I really didn't think anyone was looking at me when I had gotten overheated and removed a layer.
After the outstanding tassel twirling class that followed all the chatting, Flick showed off his wingman skills to kickstart a sexy date between me and the cute guy from dinner the night before. "Maybe you should show him our room." "Um, would you like to see our room?" He did.
The sexy shenanigans continued that night when I had my first opportunity to act as unicorn. We'd been flirting for several days with a couple and the sexual tension was really building that evening as we all danced in the lobby bar. Flick wasn't feeling up for a sexy date, but he kept working his wingman skills and encouraged the three of us to go have a great time.
Liana and Aiden were unlike any of the other couples we met. Their energy, although incredible and sexy, was also gentle and we had a wonderful, tender night full of firsts for all three of us. I learned, amongst other things, to tuck the straps of my harness into the waistband so they don't tickle my partner's feet. We went to join the fun and conversation in the hot tub afterwards as a lovely denouement to the evening.
I woke Friday morning, the final full day of the trip, to the sound of Flick clicking his phone's home button. I'd had another terrible night's sleep and was all bleary eyed as I rolled over. I caught glimpse of an image on his phone that I swore was Peach in a Life on the Swingset shirt, no bottoms, gazing all sexy at the camera.
I was devastated.
The previous day during the podcast, Cooper had mentioned a Swingsetter sending such a photo to the podcast, and I was sure he was talking about me. When I glimpsed the photo, I realized he might not have been talking about me. Maybe I was only one of many women who'd done so. I'd considered putting my hand up during the podcast to take ownership of the act, and as I thought about it, I had this visceral experience of the humiliating feeling of what it would have been like if I'd been all, 'that was me' and Copper had said, 'oh yeah, I forgot that you did that too.' I staggered to the washroom and sat weeping on the toilet for about 10 minutes with a washcloth over my mouth so Flick wouldn't hear.
When I got myself together, I went back into the bedroom and asked Flick to see the photo of Peach.
"What photo?" he asked.
I was furious! "The photo of Peach in the Swingset shirt! The one you were looking at when you woke me up."
"Uh, that was a photo of Star in a Janus Cat shirt." He pulled up photo and showed me the photo of his paramour from home.
My brain is such an asshole. They don't even look alike. There was no reason to believe she wasn't wearing pants. I'd just tortured myself for about a quarter of an hour, felt so upset I thought I might puke, and it wasn't even real. Fuck.
I was in such rough shape that day I could barely eat, but it was our last day, dammit! Took a bunch of ginger, choked down a protein bar, and snuggled with Flick on the beach bed. We went for a sail with Mal, and the sea breeze felt wonderful. I sat in on the Ending the Sexual Darkage podcast while Flick grabbed lunch. I hadn't spent nearly as much time as I'd expected to exploring the kinky events during the week, so it was awesome to peek in on that crew and hear some of their stories.
I caught up with Will after the podcast and he invited me back to his room while he checked-in to his flight. We chatted as he did his thing online, talked about a bunch of our experiences during the week, and the various feelings that had been cropping up. Elle popped in to grab gear for the foam party, but he and I decided to stay in. I ended up going back to my room to grab a bottle of massage oil and gave him a massage, then the naked cuddling led to a blow job, and a gentle fuck, since I felt too ill for anything more vigorous.
It was a great way to solidify our connection at the end of the trip, since it had been a couple days since we'd had any one on one time, and I'd finally figured out how essential that is for me to feel secure with a partner. At home I date solo almost exclusively, and all the group sex, though amazing(!!!) is a completely different experience, and I'd been feeling pretty insecure (evidenced by crazytown beginning of that morning).
When we felt up to moving again we grabbed a bite of lunch (food finally seemed like a good plan instead of punishment) and going to the wine social before parting ways for the rest of the day. Feeling more secure, I was almost a person again. I'd survived the worst of the Desire crucible!
Coming up in Part 3 (final part) - More Friday sexytimes, Slave Leia gets funky, and saying goodbye to paradise.
