Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster of new sexual and romantic adventures...
I decided to take the initiative and privately messaged the woman I'd been crushing on to tell her that I thought she was sexy and would love to play if she was interested. She was--Squee!
I find I'm kind of intimidated by them, and my brain goes into this "Pretty! *giggle* Can't. Talk." shutdown mode, and I haven't figured out how to break through.
Welcome to On The Wet Coast,
a blog & podcast about sexuality and
ethical non-monogamy of every variety.
We talk polyamory and swinging,
monogamish and open relationships;
From dirty, dirty sex to heartbreak.
We share our personal experiences and philosophy,
observations and theories,
what works for us...and where we fucked it right up.